Because I am that rare American who does not drive, never has and probably never will (and I say probably only because of the never say never rule), I tend to gravitate toward places that are easily walked around and/or have good public transportation. So imagine my dismay when I was being called repeatedly to petsit in the deep suburbs of Novato. The little dog, Buddy Boy, is a joy and the house is lovely, but it's a mile to the nearest good coffee shop, and a mile in the opposite direction to the good food market, with very little of interest in between. I felt bored and isolated, and always dreaded having to come out here. But, I try to do a quasi zen sort of thing, to go where I'm called and to be where I'm at, but still, I went whining and complaining.
One bright spot was that Buddy Boy loves to walk as much as I do, and I guess it was around my 4th or 5th visit that I noticed he seemed to know where he was going. So, I decided to try a little experiment - let him decide which way to go, and see what happens. Well, it's been nothing short of amazing! Who knew the suburbs were filled with such beauty? Gorgeous open spaces to wander endlessly in, ducking down a little side path to stroll through the landscaped gardens of a housing development, rounding a small church to find a charming garden to sit and rest in. Buddy knows all the best that Novato has to offer, and enjoys sharing that with me.
In truth, though, it hasn't been easy to completely trust a little dog. After all, I'm in totally unfamiliar surroundings, and I don't know a single person here I can call on for help if we really get lost. But the few times I said I think we need to go left when he was headed right, we really did get lost. So I learned the hard way.
This is what our days look like now. Buddy likes to sleep in until 9:00 or so most mornings, and we wait about an hour after breakfast, so usually around 11:00, we're ready to head out the door. It's always Buddy's call where we go, but before starting out, sometimes I'll say I'd like to drop off a library book, or I need to stop for groceries on the way back, and Buddy adjusts his planned itinerary to accommodate me, and off we go to some amazing 3 or 4 hour hike.
But yesterday Buddy pulled out all the stops! I wanted to get coffee so he dutifully led me downtown to Peets, then we turned left on Redwood, and then right on Olive, and walked for a really, really long time. As usual, I started to get nervous, not knowing where we are, or where we're going, but Buddy is used to my fretting, and continued to patter serenely along. Eventually, he pulled off into a seemingly dead end street, and then there we were, at the entrance to the breathtakingly beautiful Deer Island Open Space. Gorgeous green rolling hills studded with wild iris, and overlooking sparkling marsh land filled with waterbirds of every description. We wandered all over and saw more deer than people, and I knew I could travel the world over and perhaps see many things as beautiful as this place, but forget the rule book - never, never could anything exceed it's beauty.
We arrived back at his door a full 7 hours later than we left, it was easily a 10 mile hike. We were both footsore but completely relaxed, and as I begin to prepare our dinners, I marvel once again what a pleasant path I can walk when I'm able to let go and have faith in Dog.